Goedeke, SGamble, HThurlow, R2024-02-092024-02-092023-12-13Human Fertility, ISSN: 1464-7273 (Print); 1742-8149 (Online), Informa UK Limited, 26(6), 1519-1529. doi: 10.1080/14647273.2023.22925921464-72731742-8149http://hdl.handle.net/10292/17213In New Zealand egg donation is identity-release, and donors may be known to recipients, e.g. family members/friends, or previously unknown e.g. clinic-recruited or sourced through advertising. In the case of unknown donors, New Zealand practice allows donors and recipients to meet face-to-face prior to donation in a joint counselling meeting. While contact details may not necessarily be exchanged in counselling, information-exchange and contact expectations are usually addressed. In previous papers, we explored donors’ motivations and experiences of donation. In this paper, we explore donors’ ideas around their role in relation to the donor-conceived person (DCP) and their expectations and experiences of information-exchange and contact. While donors did not see themselves as parents and were aware of appropriate boundaries, they described a sense of ongoing connection to DCP, often framing this in extended family terms. They desired to be kept informed about DCP, considered themselves ‘on standby’ for information requests or in-person contact and valued the opportunity for connection between their children and DCP. Donors were, however, cognisant of the limits to their ability to ensure information-exchange and contact and sometimes struggled with their perceived disempowered position. Meeting prior to donation may both clarify and reinforce expectations of information-exchange and contact.© 2023 The Author(s). Published by Informa UK Limited, trading as Taylor & Francis Group. This is an Open Access article distributed under the terms of the Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial License (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/4.0/), which permits unrestricted non-commercial use, distribution, and reproduction in any medium, provided the original work is properly cited. The terms on which this article has been published allow the posting of the Accepted Manuscript in a repository by the author(s) or with their consent.http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/4.0/Egg donationcontactidentity releaseinformation exchangeunknown donors3215 Reproductive Medicine32 Biomedical and Clinical Sciences7.1 Individual care needs7 Management of diseases and conditions1103 Clinical Sciences1114 Paediatrics and Reproductive MedicineObstetrics & Reproductive Medicine3215 Reproductive medicineChildHumansMotivationExtended FamilyDisclosureTissue DonorsParentsOocyte DonationChildHumansMotivationExtended FamilyDisclosureTissue DonorsParentsOocyte DonationJournal ArticleOpenAccess10.1080/14647273.2023.2292592